Cynthia John
Remember the close friends who stood by you through thick and thin? Your children need such friends too!
In times when children are separated from family, they will need precious friends who can give them good advice and moral support.
While such friendships grow over the years, you can do your bit to develop them. When your child has a ‘bestie,’ give them opportunities to do things together, like sports or dance classes. A dependable, responsible friend can keep your child out of trouble or provide useful help and advice in a moment of crisis — which you may not be able to do!
Occasionally, encourage a sleepover with lots of late night chatting and secrets. Night-time bonding helps them to open up and share experiences and confidences. Much as you may believe that you should be your child’s first confidante, the relationship is likely to diminish with the passage of time.
Therefore value your child’s friendships as you value your own!
